Slutified in Imvu
A lot of things in here are very similar to how they are in real life but a few things are very different. One big difference is the morality. It took a while to understand this. I’m very conservative in real life and my first inclination was to be the same way in here.
What I learned over time though is that in here being physical is very different. Sure it doesn’t have the physical consequences as real life contact. But it’s more than that. I guess it’s partially because its not real, partially because that’s part of the spirit and purpose of the place, but its essentially the currency and way you interact and communicate in here.
In real life it’s bad to be looked at as a slut but in here being called a slut is almost a good thing kind of saying someone is open and loving and fun to be with. It’s not a derogatory term at all in here. That’s why I’m proud say I’ve been “SLUTIFIED!”
Susan’s Slut?!
Yeah I know it’s an insult to be called a slut in real life. I used to cringe when one of my friends used to call herself that in here. But I realized recently that its NOT the same in IMVU. In here there is no negative social stigma. And being called a slut refers more to a desire or ability to please someone, than anything else.
Being called “Susan’s Slut” makes it even sexier to me. It’s not a slave ownership thing. It’s a loving commitment to her and desire to please her. Making the signs in this room was my idea not hers. I love her and love how amazing my life has been with her. And even being with other people with that sign, with her tattoos, and even her name on my feet, it all makes me feel more committed and more in love. It’s good to make this real, by treating it like real life in some ways. But don’t act the same way in your real life as you do in here related to sex and don’t look at this with real life attitudes about passion in here. This crazy place can be mind blowingly fun and I guess it was just part of this quiet housewife’s growth, learning to accept and enjoy this.
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